Call our domestic abuse advice and support line on 0800 4700 280 Mon to Fri 8.30am–5.30pm, Sat 9.30am–1pm
What to do in a crisis
The most important thing to remember is that you are not alone and you are not to blame for what is happening to you.
If you are in danger please call 999.
If you can’t speak, press 55 after the automated police message.
If you need to leave in an emergency call us on: 0800 4700 280
At night you can speak to one of our out of hours workers who can give you advice and information.
You can also
- Contact the Police and they will help you get to a safe place and refer you to us the next day
- Call the Emergency Duty Team on 01454 615 165
- Go to your nearest hospital emergency department, especially if you need medical attention
- Call the National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247
- If possible take with you your own front door key, proof of identity, key documents and banking information.
We can help you stay in your home and keep the perpetrator away. We will also help make your home safe. Below are some examples of the support we offer.
- Someone to talk things over with
- Help you to make your home safe by putting safety measures in place
- Form a safety plan together
- Help you get legal protection
- Work with the police to keep you safe
Call us on 0800 4700 280
Help is also available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week on the National Domestic Violence Helpline – Freephone 0808 2000 247
What to do if you need urgent police help through the 999 service, but can’t speak
If you’re in an emergency situation and need police help, but can’t speak, Make Yourself Heard and let the 999 operator know your call is genuine.
When you call 999
All 999 calls are directed to call centres and will be answered by BT operators. They will ask which service you need. If no service is requested but anything suspicious is heard throughout the process, BT operators will connect you to a police call handler.
If you call 999 from a mobile
It is always best to speak to the operator if you can, even by whispering. You may also be asked to cough or tap the keys on your phone in response to questions.
If making a sound would put you or someone else in danger and the BT operator cannot decide whether an emergency service is needed, your call will be transferred to the Silent Solution system.
The Silent Solution is a police system used to filter out large numbers of accidental or hoax 999 calls. It also exists to help people who are unable to speak, but who genuinely need police assistance. You will hear an automated police message, which lasts for 20 seconds and begins with ‘you are through to the police’. It will ask you to press 55 to be put through to police call management. The BT operator will remain on the line and listen. If you press 55, they will be notified and transfer the call to the police. If you don’t press 55, the call will be terminated. Pressing 55 does not allow police to track your location.
What then?
When transferred to your local police force, the police call handler will attempt to communicate with you by asking simple yes or no questions. If you are not able to speak, listen carefully to the questions and instructions from the call handler so they can assess your call and arrange help if needed.
If you call 999 from a landline
Because it’s less likely that 999 calls are made by accident from landlines, the Silent Solution system is not used.
If, when an emergency call on a landline is received:
– there is no request for an emergency
– the caller does not answer questions
– only background noise can be heard and BT operators cannot decide whether an emergency service is needed,
then you will be connected to a police call handler as doubt exists.
If you replace the handset, the landline may remain connected for 45 seconds in case you pick it up again.
If you pick up again during this 45 seconds and the BT operator is concerned for your safety, the call will be connected to police.
When 999 calls are made from landlines, information about where you’re calling from should be automatically available to the call handlers to help provide a response.


